Find out what the fight was really about.
Drop in a conversation that went sideways. The decoder reads it against the 6 Core Social Needs, names the pattern you two keep repeating, and shows you a better way to say the same thing — then hands you a report you can print.
- BelongingFeeling included, accepted, part of a unit
- SignificanceFeeling valued, important, seen
- CompetenceFeeling capable, effective, respected for skill
- Security / PredictabilityFeeling safe, stable, in control
- ConnectionEmotional closeness, empathy, being understood
- Approval / AcceptanceFeeling liked, validated, not judged
Decode a Conversation
Paste it, upload it, or build it line by line.
One message per line works best. Lines like Name: message are detected automatically.
Nothing is stored. Close the tab and it's gone.