Coaching
Work through it with someone in the room
The decoder gives you the map. Coaching helps you walk it when the conversation is live and the stakes are real.
Single Decode Session
90 minutes
Bring one conversation that went badly. We decode it together, map the needs collision, and leave with rewritten language for the next round.
- • Pre-session transcript review
- • Live needs mapping for both partners
- • Printable Needs Signal Report
- • Two rewrite scripts to practice
Six-Week Pattern Work
6 × 60 minutes
For the fight that keeps coming back. We isolate the recurring loop, build a protocol that feeds both needs, and hold you to it week over week.
- • Baseline decode of three real conversations
- • Weekly needs check-in structure
- • Custom repair phrases you both agree to
- • Mid-point and closing progress report
On-Call Conflict Support
Monthly
For couples in a high-stakes stretch — a move, a diagnosis, a blended family. Async decoding between sessions so nothing festers for a week.
- • Two 60-minute sessions per month
- • Async transcript decoding within 24 hours
- • Escalation plan for hard weeks
- • Referral to licensed care when appropriate
Request a session
Tell us what's happening in a few sentences. We'll reply with availability and the right starting point — sometimes that's a guide rather than a session.
Not sure yet? Run a conversation through the decoder first and bring the report with you.